Clients who have experienced abortion frequently work with me:
after calling free talklines and trying traditional therapy (or concurrently with traditional therapy)
to finally talk to partner(s), friends, and family about the abortion(s)
to make troubling thoughts and feelings disappear
to stop having nightmares and sleep soundly
to learn miraculous tools to transform emotions, like anger toward exes (or entire towns) and guilt
to practice "30 seconds of grief"
to write true personal abortion stories, with no fear of judgment
to learn how to meditate and to pray with seemingly magical results
to make permanent changes that promote freedom and power
to experience breakthroughs in romance, relationships, career, and creativity
to be authentic and self-expressed, without holding back
$222 for a 90-minute phone coaching session.
For financial assistance, please email kassi [at] kassiunderwood [dot] com
TESTIMONIALS // WHAT IT'S LIKE TO WORK WITH ME
"I terminated my pregnancy five years ago. I was 18. There was no one that I felt would relate, no one I felt safe enough to talk about it with, and there seemed to be nothing that would fill how empty I felt. The word "abortion" made my stomach turn every time I heard it. I accepted it was just going to be a painful secret forever...and then I was introduced to Kassi and started reading May Cause Love. Working with Kassi got me started on my own journey of healing. I have been able to talk about my own experience, feel reassured that I am not alone in this, and allow myself to feel emotions I had thought I wanted to avoid. Kassi helped me come up with new ways to think about my experience, and new ways to cope with emotions that come up. Through talking, writing, meditation, and prayer, working with Kassi supported me while I worked through a lot of the feelings I buried. I now have constructive solutions to any negative feelings that come up. So grateful to be on this journey of recovery and healing—I hope that anyone who has had this experience feels encouraged and supported to start their own journey as well." —Laura H., 23, Junior Accountant & Office Manager, New Hampshire
"Kassi is your spiritual counselor and priestess, the epitome of the wise-friend type, the first person you think of when you need advice."
—Liza Monroy, author of Seeing As Your Shoes Are Soon To Be On Fire: Essays
No matter how long ago or how many abortions you may have had, I consider it a total honor to listen to your experience and to see you as already perfect. The practical guidance I provide in these sessions is based on A Course in Miracles, the renowned psychological mind training based on universal spiritual principles that emerged from Columbia University in 1976. You do not need to be familiar with the text in order to work with me; these ideas are familiar to anyone on earth. I use these principles with my clients simply because they work. They heal. They transform fear into miracles. It's an absolute f*cking joy for me to share the principles and to help you apply them to your life. What's 100 percent necessary, if you want to make the most of your session, is being willing to create your own transformation. I don't do a lot of coddling and sugarcoating. In my decade of experience with counseling people from all walks of life, I've found that indulging in difficulties and limitations keep you stuck. I want you to live an extraordinary life on this planet. Expect me to give you specific tools and time-tested practices. Expect homework. Expect to experiment with new techniques and for me to provide you with adjustments as we go along. Count on me to stand for you to do the things you've always wanted to do: talk about your abortion, be a powerhouse at work, establish a consistent meditation practice, start a business, retire, breakup, makeup, have amazing sex, be celibate, zap anxiety, clear your schedule, live inside of vibrant moments. You name it. You'll become the force of nature you came here to be.
Hey there. I'm Kassi, a Harvard-trained spiritual coach. My own journey after abortion laid the foundation for my coaching practice. My new book, May Cause Love, was described by one reviewer as "the Eat Pray Love of abortion memoirs." The book contains seven years of research and immersive journalism on healing, transformation, and ritual around abortion. I've given public talks about abortion, wellness, and personal development since 2011; some of my favorite topics include relationships, the power of ritual, 30-second practices of grief, and practices for peace of mind. In 2013, after completing an intensive training program with Exhale, the award-winning pro-voice abortion counseling talkline, I traveled across the United States on a yearlong tour to teach deep listening and personal storytelling. I was a professor of writing at Columbia University for three years. Next I began theological studies at Harvard with a focus on counseling and women healers. I have more than a decade of experience with daily meditation and universal spiritual practices of love and personal responsibility. My coaching services have been available by word of mouth for half a decade. I've worked with dozens of women like you in breakthrough sessions and long term personal development so they can live an extraordinary life after abortion.